Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Toddlerhood series : What are these years like for you?

These two short years are probably the most exhausting years of parenthood, but they can also be some of the most exhilarating. Sometimes you may think that you spend all your time trying to protect your toddler from harm and trying to save your home from total destruction. It’s natural to feel frustrated and exasperated a lot, especially if you have another job outside the home.

You might look forward all week to spending time with your toddler at the park on Saturday, showing him the ducklings you know he’ll love. When the weekend arrives, you find that he wants to go to the park, too, but he wails when you try to put on his jacket. When you come home, he doesn’t want to get into the bath, and then he doesn’t want to get out. He throws his food on the floor, then cries because it’s gone. Conflict may take up much of your life with him. On the other hand, your toddler can be enchanting. You may come home from work after a tough day and find that your concerns melt away when he crawls into your lap. He’s so full of wonder and excitement that some of it rubs off on you and you see the world through his fresh eyes. The sun and moon look bigger and flowers seem to pop up when he walks by. Watching him grow in skill and understanding brings delight and triumph every day.

These years may be easier if you

• Expect the unexpected

• Remember that every child develops at his own pace

• Take advantage of community resources

• Get together on your lunch hour with co-workers who have toddlers

• Accept that your child’s favorite word may be, “NO!”

• Visit Internet Web sites for parents of toddlers

Source : Questions Parents Of Toddler Ask. Ceridian Corporation.2001

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